Mommy Be You

I know it’s been awhile since Iv blogged, but things have been a little rough for my husband. Iv been focused on him since Iv seen that he’s been depressed and my husband is usually an optimistic and courageous kind of person and that’s what I love about him. We’ve been married for almost five years, and I’ve seen he’s good, and he’s bad times, so I know when something wrong with my husband and man has he been through so much, but he’s always been positive.

After having my oldest daughter and discovered postpartum depression, he’s always been so comforting, and I have not gone through any of the stuff my husband has been through. I ask why he’s so confident, and he says, “because we’re in god’s hands and I know that he will take care of us.” I was never a religious person, but he’s open me up to believe that everything will be okay, and we need to keep reminding ourselves that everything will be okay. Yes! You will have your worst time, but you have to think is this something that you’re going to drag along or are you willing to not give up and to keep going.

I believe good things come to anyone when it’s the right time, when you don’t even expect it.These last couple of months have been rough for my husband, but my husband knows that yes we’re going through a rough time now, but it will not always be like this and assures me that everything will be okay. I’m so grateful for my husband, he’s the most loving and caring person Iv ever known, and not most people don’t see what I see when it’s just me and him. My parents haven’t always excepted him cause of how he can sometimes act around my family, and they always portray him like he’s a bad person when he’s not, but I wasn’t going to throw my love and happiness for this man away because what we have is so special. I just wish they knew how amazing he is as my husband and as a father to his girls.

I can’t express how much my love and gratitude that I have towards my husband. He’s taught me so much and I’m so happy to have him in my life cause I don’t know what mental state I would be in right now if it wasn’t for him. Please don’t give up and try to keep going cause I believe a door will open and good things will come out of it. No one is you this is your super power, the world is full of beautiful things you just have to be willing to keep searching for it.