Mommy Be You

I hope everyone had a wonderful thanksgiving and I wanted to talk about this subject or the meaning of the word. I mean of course you probably know the meaning of communication but knowing how much it feels to just getting stuff off your mind is such a good feel and not only for you but for the other person.

I feel that communication is a number one key to any relationship. My husband wasn’t a sit down and talk about type of person, but after you have kids it changes a lot. At the beginning of our relationship we didn’t communicate that well, but as we grew together, I feel that we have learned to communicate without always turning it into an argument. I’m not going to say that we never had an argument, but it wasn’t always and argument when we were expressing how we were feeling and seeing on what we can do to change that.

Conversation can or won’t go the way you thought but at least you’re trying. I’m happy that I’m able to communicate with my husband and him understanding how I feel and giving me a different perspective of why I’m feeling this way, and he always liked trying to figure out how to improve things , that’s one of the reasons why I love him so much. When I talk to him or anyone, it feels good to have a shoulder to lean on and makes your feelings kind of fade away a bit. But I will say that if something is bothering you or something you just need to get off your chest.

Talk to your close people or the direct person you need to talk to, don’t sweep the feelings under the rug like it doesn’t matter, because it does. Communication goes a long way. If your busy, say it. If your upset, express it. If your late, let people know. If your unsure, ask. It’s so simple but important.